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How Our Focus Guards, Guides, and Grounds

by Jessica Van Roekel | Jan 19, 2020 | Christian Living | 4 comments

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Focusing Power

 

I’m learning that my quick skimming of articles, emails, social media posts, and updates leads me to a lack of focus in my life. I use to be able to read for hours, getting completely lost in the journey the author takes me on. Now, I’m lucky if I can read for twenty minutes before I flip open my email or instagram. This lack of focus translates into other areas of my life — my inability to attend to what my kids and husband tell me, my prayer life, and my bible study. This concerns me because in order to live this “God-life” with power and grace, I need to be able to focus.

 

Romans 12:2 guides my life and gives direction. I know my mind needs renewing. I know the rabbit trails I go down that lead to disappointment, worry, and doubt. And every time I take a journey into that place, I regret it. Although I learn plenty, it reminds me of the power of focus.

 

Focus Affects Our Relationships

 

What do we focus on? How do we focus? Why is focus so important? Focus means to set our minds, eyes, and hearts on God. During a recent quiet time, I read Psalm 9:10, “Those who know your name will trust in you, for you, Lord, have never forsaken those who seek you.” Trust relates to knowing. Knowing grows through time spent in relationship. Relationship starts with faith.

 

While we grow and develop our relationship with the Lord, we discover the two-sided reality of the Christian life:

 

Acceptance in Christ and growing in Christ.

 

Status as kings and duties as slaves.

 

Presence of Christ and pressure of sin.

 

Made right with God and daily problems that help us grow.

 

Without an awareness of this two-sided reality, focusing our hearts and minds on Christ is a struggle. But, when we’re aware that we are accepted as we are and given opportunities to grow, our focus shifts from our circumstances to the One who guides, leads, heals, and loves. This focus helps guard our hearts, shows us where to serve, and grounds our hearts in hope.

 

Focus Helps to Guard Our Hearts

 

Our hearts need guarding. There is so much in this world that aims to demoralize our hearts through distraction and disappointment. We can guard our hearts by carefully considering what we focus on. Proverbs 4:23-27 lays out a delightful plan to teach us how to guard our hearts. Out of our hearts spring life. Therefore, what we think, see, say, and do makes a difference on our life.

 

Focus Shows Us the Next Thing

 

Our hearts need direction. Too much inward focus turns us into selfish minded people with a narrow view of ourselves and our world. However, when we look up and out, our hearts develop awareness of a greater view. Without purpose, the gifts God gives us languish and we never reach the fullest potential God has for us. Then others, for whom God gave us those gifts, do not benefit.

 

In John 4:35, Jesus tells the disciples to open their eyes to see the fields ripe for harvest. Somewhere someone is waiting for you to breathe a bit of the hope you have in Jesus into their hearts. That hope can be the difference between harvest languishing and going to waste or a harvest that does what it was designed to do: multiply.

 

Establishes Our Hearts in Hope

 

Hope is standing assured in what we cannot see. It is standing with our face to wind, feeling the sting of it on our cheeks and its power buffeting our bodies and knowing that the rock on which we stand will not give way. Sometimes we hunker down behind the rock, beside the rock, and sometimes we climb inside it in order to gain a reprieve from the blast. But no matter what, we know that our Rock never fails.

 

This is what fixing our eyes on Jesus does for us in the times when distractions and disappointments abound. It’s the one thing that we can do that grounds our heart in hope. God takes care of the rest, but we choose where to fix our gaze. Hebrews 12:2: “Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning it’s shame, and sat down at the right hand of God.”

 

The Story Unfolds

 

Your story isn’t finished. Your faith isn’t perfected. And that’s okay. You don’t have to worry about the ending or the plot twists. You don’t have to worry if your faith is strong enough. That plot twist? God is with you. That unexpected ending? God beckons to you to follow him. Your faith? God strengthens you even in your doubts as you fix your eyes on him.

 

Focus matters. It protects our hearts, guides our steps, and sets our heart on a firm foundation. As you move into the new year, take each opportunity to reset your focus. As you do so, your heart will be guarded, guided, and grounded.

 

 

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4 Comments

  1. Debby Kraai
    Debby Kraai on January 21, 2020 at 2:08 pm

    Great reminder! It really goes along with some Scripture I am memorizing- Psalm 119:9-16.

    • Jessica Van Roekel
      Jessica Van Roekel on January 22, 2020 at 8:05 pm

      Thank-you! I love the Psalms and chapter 119 has some treasures in it!

  2. Christina Alameda
    Christina Alameda on January 21, 2020 at 11:29 pm

    Thank You Jessica Van Roekel, this is a Sooooo on time message ⚘Glory to GOD.” LOVE and GOD BLESS You Your Family and Ministrie ALOHA Always Sister Chrissy Honolulu Hawai’i United States 🕊⚘🕊⚘🕊⚘🕊⚘🕊⚘🕊⚘🕊⚘🕊⚘🕊

    • Jessica Van Roekel
      Jessica Van Roekel on January 22, 2020 at 8:06 pm

      Thank-you so much! I’m glad it is a timely message for you! Blessings to you from Iowa!

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