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taming of the shrew

by Jessica Van Roekel | Apr 8, 2016 | Christian Living | 5 comments

I took a Shakespeare class once upon a time. Most people thought I was crazy; I thought I was maybe smart, however, I think they must have been right!

Anyway–I loved the sound of the poetry, the syntax, and the obscure way Shakespeare presented a thought. Who knew being crazy could be so beautiful–I am looking at you, Ophelia. There was so much tragedy–so much humor–so much spoken between the lines that to grasp the depth one must attend.

My poor children received the sharp side of my tongue the other day. What I said was appropriate and right, but what I said between the lines was so very, very wrong. So wrong that I needed to apologize and seek forgiveness. It was one of those very sad mama days.

This tongue of mine–James 3:8 says that no human being can tame it and I would have to unequivocally agree! You know those folks who are great at thinking on their feet and have the best comebacks? I am not one of them, it usually takes at least 24 hours before one comes to me and then, of course, it is too late. *shrug* However, there have been those rare occasions that a snappy comeback flew out of my mouth that was neither witty nor amusing, but downright mean and calloused. It’s enough to make me want to crawl into a whole and never open my mouth again. I cannot tame my tongue.

There is this lovely verse in 2 Corinthians that encourages us to take every thought captive to obey Christ. The day my tongue let loose like a rain of fire? I was NOT taking my thoughts captive, in fact, I wasn’t even thinking about them in the first place. A mind submitted to Christ reaps a harvest of words committed to Christ, but even then….

Exhibit A:  Four Children

Datestamp of said shrew-ness: Recently

Outcome: A Lesson in Humility and Forgiveness.

All is not lost when the tongue is a shrew. There is hope and forgiveness in Christ. There is power in the Holy Spirit. It is true that there is life and death in the tongue. Which will I yield to today? Which will I yield to tomorrow?

Let us bring healing with our words. Let our words be filled with gentleness and seasoned with wisdom. Let us endeavor to speak words of life into the hearts and minds of our people and also to ourselves.

 

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5 Comments

  1. Camie
    Camie on April 8, 2016 at 2:59 pm

    Yes, what we imply in our words can have as much an impact as what we actually say. I know I’m guilty of this. So thankful for humility and forgiveness.

    • jessicavanroekel
      jessicavanroekel on April 8, 2016 at 5:43 pm

      Humility and forgiveness are gifts we receive and cherish.

  2. Katie Andraski
    Katie Andraski on April 8, 2016 at 3:06 pm

    I can so relate to this. I tend to have a long fuse too, which didn’t always serve me well as a teacher. I hear you also on how words and tone can carry two messages. How wonderful for your children that they have a mom who recognizes when her words are harsh.

    • jessicavanroekel
      jessicavanroekel on April 8, 2016 at 5:42 pm

      Thank you for your kind encouragement!

      • Katie Andraski
        Katie Andraski on April 9, 2016 at 12:08 pm

        You’re welcome! Blessings on your writing and work and life.

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